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ANNOUNCEMENTS
AND REPORTS FOR MARCH/APRIL 2025
COMING UP THIS WEEK:
March 23-29
Sunday, March 23:
•Service at 10:30 a.m. in person and on Zoom. Sign up on this website for Zoom link. This week, Nels Gullerud and Walter Hodgdon present a service titled “The Power of Gratitude in Uncertain Times.”
•Special Collection for ALSO Youth, empowering LGBTQ+ youth and their allies and creating inclusive communities, concludes today. ALSO’s executive director, Mel Gosselin, will address the congregation. Please make checks payable to ALSO Youth and bring or mail to Manatee UU Fellowship, 322 15th St. W, Bradenton, FL 34205.
•Friendly City Pride 2025 is today from 2 p.m. to 7 p.m. at Oscura, 816 Manatee Ave. East, Bradenton. Please stop by our table and say hello!
•Reminder: Committee budget requests are due to the office by the end of the day.
Tuesday, March 25:
•Connections: A Sharing Hour has its weekly meeting at 11:00 a.m. Facilitated by Alia Starkweather. All are welcome.
•Joyful Song meets every Tuesday at 12:30 p.m. Is there a song in your heart? Come and sing with us!
Thursday, March 27:
•Joyful Jammers meets from 10 a.m. to noon each week. Anyone who plays an instrument or sings is welcome to join in the fun. Contact: Peggy Dickson.
•Chair Yoga meets at 6 p.m. each week.
COMING SOON
March 30: Special Sunday service recognizing Transgender Day of Visibility.
ONGOING
Menstrual Supplies Drive: We’ve begun collecting these for Kim’s Krew clients. See wicker hamper near fireplace in Social Room. A sign lists what is needed. Gift cards and cash welcome; please deposit in little black container there. Thank you!
NOTE: All events are in person at the fellowship unless otherwise indicated.
Schedule updated March 22, 2025.


READ ABOUT OUR NEWEST GROUPS
Caregiver Peer Support Group
“Being a caregiver requires infinite patience, physical and emotional strength, health care navigation skills, and a sense of humor — which can be hard to come by after sleepless nights and demanding days.” — Rosalynn Carter
The Caregiver Support Group is for members of the Fellowship who are currently caregivers at any stage of the journey and who, in a safe nonjudgmental space, benefit from each other’s acceptance and recognition for their common concerns and are grateful for the wisdom, insight and humor of their fellow caregivers.
The gatherings take place at our building on the third Saturday of every month from 10:30 a.m. until noon. The size of the group is limited to 10.
If you are interested in joining, please contact Katherine Knowles.
Connections
Connections, a sharing hour, is a chance for Fellowship members and friends to share with and support each other in a safe and welcoming environment. The group meets at the fellowship every Tuesday from 11 a.m. to noon. Contact facilitator Alia Starkweather for more information.
Joyful Song
Joyful Song is a restored singing group for anyone who loves to sing or just to listen. Facilitator Alia Starkweather says nearly everyone can sing (whatever you were told long ago.) Singing is healing for your body, mind, and spirit. Please join us. [NOTE: If this time is not good for you, please let us know and we will consider meeting at a different day or time.]
Chair Yoga
Chair Yoga meets each week at our building Thursdays from 6 p.m. to 7 p.m. Emphasis will be placed on asana (exercise), pranayama (breath), and mindfulness to strengthen balance, flexibility and body. Member Patricia Hurd leads the class. She has been teaching yoga for 9 years and is a certified instructor through Yoga Alliance. There is no charge to participate. A chair is waiting for you!
SOCIAL EVENTS FIRST WEDNESDAY, THIRD FRIDAY OF EACH MONTH
Join us for our ‘happy hour’ at Pier 22 (1200 1st Ave. W, Bradenton) on Wednesday, March 5 at 4:30 p.m. Everyone is welcome to join this informal gathering featuring friendship, food, drink , and conversation. Go to pier22.com for directions and menu information. Our Pier 22 outing is held the first Wednesday of each month.
Our next Share a Dish potluck is Friday, March 21, at 6 p.m. at our building. Bring a dish to share — like the name says! — and join us for food, fellowship and fun. Share a Dish is held on the third Friday of each month. Some months a special speaker or program is presented. This month, pianist Shirley Loebel will offer a selection of St. Patrick’s Day music.
Please check back here each month for the latest details and updates. And please join us for these monthly social events — and more!


SPECIAL COLLECTION FOR MARCH:
ALSO YOUTH
Our Special Collection for March will benefit ALSO Youth.
ALSO Youth was created in 1992 by individuals who were alarmed at the statistics documenting high rates of suicide among gay and lesbian teens. In cooperation with other local organizations, volunteers were recruited to conduct a support group for Sarasota area youth. Upon realizing that more comprehensive services were needed throughout the community, ALSO’s founders initiated contact with school officials and implemented a training program for educators. The types of services and numbers of youth and community members served have steadily increased.
Today, ALSO Youth is a nonprofit organization providing peer support services, community enrichment, scholarships, free counseling, and so much more for LGBTQ+ youth ages 10 to 24, their families and friends, and the community throughout Sarasota and Manatee counties.
This Special Collection begins Sunday, March 9, and runs through Sunday, March 23. Please make checks payable to “ALSO Youth” and bring to a service or mail to: Manatee UU Fellowship, 322 15th St. West, Bradenton, FL 34205.
Thank you for your help in supporting the work of this important organization. Go to ALSOYouth.org for more information.
THIS IS THE WAY WE KNIT ‘N CHAT
Knit ‘n Chat continues to meet at 10 a.m. the first and third Tuesdays of each month. A small group of knitters and crocheters are working on a project to offer for the annual fellowship Auction. It will be wonderful — so keep your eyes open for what is coming! Our two shipments of 27 colorful scarves were sent to Women Knitting for Peace — these go with volunteer dentists around the world to distribute in clinics, encouraging people to come for dental services.
We enjoy spending our 2nd hour with the Connections gro which meets at 11 a.m. — as part of our mission to ‘knit’/connect with needs of our Fellowship and community. We are looking forward to cooler temperatures and meeting once again on our back deck with the sheltering umbrellas. All are welcome and encouraged to join us … no craft skills needed. There is always time and pleasure in our Chatting.
— Carol Alt


OUR TINY LIBRARY IS ONE YEAR OLD!
It was a year ago this month we dedicated our Tiny Library. Since then, we have given away over 300 books focused on Diversity, Equality, Inclusion, and UU Values, as well as banned books. We also included books in other languages that are spoken in our neighborhood. In the political atmosphere we are living in, it’s a way we can stand up to the censorship and be a voice for the marginalized. Our Tiny Library has been embraced in other ways by our community. I often find books that have been placed in the cabinet. I remove them and review them for content and condition and usually put our bookplate and bookmark in them, catalog them, and put them back out to be circulated to the public.
The Warmington Freedom Tiny Library should be a source of pride for our community. It’s funded by a special account set up by the late Carl Warmington in honor of his wife Ruth. I belong to a Tiny Library Facebook group and I read complaints that no books are being taken, all the books being taken, and even vandalism. So far none of that has happened to us. Our cabinet has recently weathered 3 hurricanes thanks to the sturdy construction from our former custodian Bernie Salzinger and it has a motion sensor light inside installed by Denise Solomon our office assistant and custodian. It was decorated by Chris MacCormack who painted the books on the side. I’m excited about how successful our Tiny Library is.
Donations of books are welcome from the membership if you’d like to support the cause. Planned enhancements are; a bench next to it and a literature tube that we can put a brochure about our Fellowship in it for the public to take to learn about us. The Tiny Library is an outreach to the neighborhood, a symbol of our principles, and a way we can try to make a difference by spreading a message.
— Becky Smith
ABOUT THE PROGRESS PRIDE FLAG
The original pride flag was created in the 1970s by gay activist Gilbert Baker, friend of Harvey Milk, the first openly gay man to be elected to public office in California. Baker used eight colors and corresponding meanings: hot pink for sexuality, red for life, orange for healing, yellow for the sun, green for nature, turquoise for art, indigo for harmony, and violet for spirit.
The new Progress Pride Flag includes new colors and a new design that are meant to represent people of color, as well as people who are transgender, intersex, or nonbinary.
The colors black and brown were added to the Progress Pride Flag to represent unrepresented black and brown people.
With the rise of the Black Lives Matter movement, culture at large began to shift in a much-needed way towards acknowledging the vital roles that people of color have had in our society. The pride movement background is one of many areas where people of color did not receive the recognition they deserved historically. Adding colors to represent them on the flag is one way to change that.
The word “progress” in the new flag isn’t only about adding the new colors to it. It’s also because of the shape, which differs from the original design of horizontal stripes only. The Progress Pride Flag shows the white, pink, baby blue, black, and brown stripes in a triangle shape, with the old six-color rainbow stacked next to them.
The color placement and new shape was done intentionally to convey the separation in meaning and shift focus to how important the issues represented on the left are.
The placement of the new colors in an arrow shape is meant to convey the progress still needed.
— Mariano Vera
[As a Welcoming Congregation accredited by the Unitarian Universalist Association, Manatee UU Fellowship flies the Progress Pride Flag in front of our building each Sunday morning. It also appears on our permanent building sign.]


RENEWING OUR LEGACY CIRCLE
Anyone can join our Legacy Circle and make meaningful gifts to Manatee Unitarian Universalist Fellowship in their will. Regardless of the amount, your bequest is a statement of faith that our UU movement and our voices for compassionate justice, democracy, and religious freedom are heard long after we are gone. When you demonstrate that you care enough about this fellowship to support its future, others will follow your generous example.
No matter what your age, you can designate Manatee UU Fellowship as the beneficiary of all or a percentage of your IRA and it will pass to us tax-free after your lifetime. It’s simple, just requiring that you contact your IRA administrator for a change-of-beneficiary form or download a form from your provider’s website.
Join the Legacy Circle at our fellowship by stating your gift plan on your personal intentions form available in our office. Your name(s) will be placed on the Legacy Circle plaque in the sanctuary. Because most popular retirement plan administrators assume no obligation to notify charities of their client’s designations, the intentions form is an important document to us and will be held in a confidential file.
SOMETHING FOR OUR SANCTUARY
This beautiful banner, made by fellowship member Klara Weis, was carried by her during the banner parade at the UU General Assembly in Pittsburgh, Pa., in June 2023. It currently hangs in front of the media booth in our sanctuary.
Thank you, Klara!


A GIFT FOR US ALL
For our 2021 auction, Peg Green offered to create a flaming chalice fabric wall hanging “to hang in your home or give as a gift.” The winner would get to choose the flaming chalice design and color scheme. and then Peg would create the piece.
During the live auction held in February 2021, Bill Hayes kept raising his bid and finally outbid everyone. Over that summer he generously gifted the lovely quilt to our fellowship. It is bold and beautiful, and can be seen in our Sanctuary on Zoom as well as in-person during our Sunday services.
Peg’s artwork can be viewed on her website www.peacepeg.com and one of her works is on the cover of the UUA Pocket Guide for new members.
Thank you, Peg and Bill, for being so generous!

Reverend Fred L Hammond
FRED’S FLAVORINGS
This past week, I had a family gathering with my mom’s cousins. I had not seen them in a few years. It was a very nice visit. We told family stories, we joked and laughed and ate good food. It felt relaxing — except in the middle of this lighthearted gathering I flashed back to a scene in the movie Cabaret.
The scene, as I recall it, was two events juxtaposed against each other. The Cabaret was a place of refuge, a place of forgetting, a place to get drunk and laugh as if nothing was more important. Meanwhile there were clips of Kristallnacht — a pogrom against Jewish businesses and homes. One scene also included a man embracing his Jewish identity to marry the woman he loved knowing that such embrace placed him at grave risk. The flashback was felt viscerally as it occurred.
In 2012, our denomination held a Justice GA in Phoenix, Ariz. Arizona had passed an egregious law against immigrants and indigenous people in the state. The law separated families, racially profiled people, and arrested them and held them in Tent City, where temps inside the tents would exceed 110 degrees.
Several hundred UUs held vigil and witness outside of Tent City. A few months before this event, Unitarian Universalists in the hundreds joined immigrant organizations in civil disobedience on the first day the law went into effect. We were successful in stopping the sheriff in Phoenix from rounding up any undocumented person on that day. Dozens of UUs were arrested that day along with members of the immigrant community. While they were inside the jail through the night, we were outside the jail — singing and dancing with full voice and body. This was for two reasons — we wanted those arrested to be able to hear us outside and know we were there, and the second reason was we wanted the sheriff to know we will not be intimidated by these arrests. We were strong together and we would remain in our resolve to overturn this unjust law. The joy expressed by us outside the jail was an act of resistance.
What is happening in our nation is frightening. His tactics are geared towards intimidating groups of people into compliance. And he is succeeding as we see people and corporations bend towards his will.
We have a choice as Unitarian Universalists. We can use this space as a refuge in which we escape what is happening in the nation. As Joel Grey as Master of Ceremonies in Cabaret says: “Leave your troubles outside! Life is disappointing! Forget it! In here, Life is beautiful.” The Lutheran Church in the Third Reich did this.
Or we can celebrate our values. Proclaim with joy the pluralism, the diversity, the equity and inclusion we honor. Shout from the rooftops the love and inherent worthiness we know to be universal. Joy, dancing, laughter in the context of displaying our values is an act of resistance. May we celebrate our values generously for all to see.
Blessed Be.
“I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past, I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.”
― Frank Herbert, Dune
“The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.”
— Franklin D. Roosevelt
We live in dangerous times. Our values are under attack at local, state and federal levels. This is no time for living a casual Unitarian Universalism. Within hours of inauguration, President Trump has declared war on Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion within the federal government and has promised to place pressure on corporations to follow suit. He has falsely declared that there are only two genders, male and female. Erasing our siblings who are non-binary, intersex, and transgender. Our values follow the science. Our values follow the religious truths of honoring the inherent dignity of all creation, welcoming the foreigner, tending the needs of the poor and indigent among us. These are our values.
We need not be afraid of expressing our values to the world. Fear is the mind-killer, author Frank Herbert tells us in Dune. Fear will cause us to shrink back, become less than who we are. Yet that is not who we are — we are a people who side with those marginalized and denied their full expression of self. It was combatting the fear that allowed us to win against powers that forged fascism in the mid-20th century. We are called once again to declare our values as the ones that may heal humanity.
Episcopal Bishop Budd in her prayer at the Inaugural Prayer Service stated to President Trump:
“I ask you to have mercy upon the people in our country who are scared now. There are gay, lesbian and transgender children in Democratic, Republican, and Independent families, some who fear for their lives. The people who pick our crops and clean our office buildings; who labor in poultry farms and meat packing plants; who wash the dishes after we eat in restaurants and work the night shifts in hospitals.
“They … may not be citizens or have the proper documentation. But the vast majority of immigrants are not criminals. They pay taxes and are good neighbors. They are faithful members of our churches and mosques, synagogues, gurudwaras and temples.
“I ask you to have mercy, Mr. President, on those in our communities whose children fear that their parents will be taken away. And that you help those who are fleeing war zones and persecution in their own lands to find compassion and welcome here.
“Our God teaches us that we are to be merciful to the stranger, for we were all once strangers in this land. May God grant us the strength and courage to honor the dignity of every human being, to speak the truth to one another in love and walk humbly with each other and our God for the good of all people. Good of all people in this nation and the world. Amen”
She asked for mercy; Trump demands an apology from her. Mercy is not a value Trump honors. We honor mercy. May we be unafraid in showing mercy and love in a world where love has grown cold.
Blessed Be.
I am always amazed at how fast the years go by — especially as I grow older. Maybe because I am reminded that the days ahead of me are far fewer than the days behind me. And I long for the days to slow down a bit to allow me the time to savor the miracles that happen in front of me every day.
But I admit, I have become a bit jaded with everyday miracles. I seem to have lost that wonder and awe at seeing a flock of ducks in unison take off from the pond behind my house or the sparrows that darken the skies in a synchronized ballet. Or how the resurrection fern can be brown and crackly and turn green and supple with a good rain shower.
I find myself ignoring these ordinary miracles of late.
And instead, I find myself worrying that I am running out of time. That perhaps my best days, my best accomplishments, my best achievements are lost to the passage of time and never to be seen again. Yet, I know that the miracle of life includes me in these increasingly rickety and creaky bones. And while I may no longer be able to romp through the grass with joyous abandon like the children in my neighborhood, I still have the ability to express the joy of living this life. And as long as there is breath within this old sack of air there is an opportunity to love each other in the here and now.
To express our love and appreciation for the lives that cross our paths and to be the balm of healing to the broken hearted among us. That is miracle enough. May we find an abundance of opportunities to be that balm of love for as many days that are ahead of us. Miracles do happen in front of us every day. Be ready to receive them and share them with others.
Blessings do abound.
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PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE
What an exciting February we have had. The annual awesome auction just finished, and I can’t wait to see if we made our $8,000 goal. We had great participation from the planning, the day of the auction, and the lively bidding. I hope everyone got something wonderful to enjoy. A huge thank you to everyone who donated, especially the businesses who said yes when asked for a donation. Let’s thank them for their generosity by giving them our business.
Speaking of generosity, we have begun our Stewardship campaign. We know everything is more expensive and we are feeling less confident after the election. We don’t know what to expect next. One thing we can feel good about is the mission of the Fellowship and how we are a safe haven for the marginalized and targeted. That’s something good that is standing up and with our support and will stand strong with our values and principles as a beacon of hope. It’s a time in our history when it feels like we are swimming against strong currents trying to wash us away, but we need to make sure that never happens. If we can raise our pledges by at least 10 percent, we have matching funds for that amount. We will hear more about that in the next few weeks. I manage to find money for what’s important and this is. I hope you will also. And if you haven’t pledged in the past, this is the time to start.
I watched a movie with my granddaughter, Victoria, and the character challenged herself to do the next right thing. I thought that was brilliant. Instead of concentrating on everything that is wrong, do what we can. We need to figure out what the next right thing is and do it. For me it’s supporting the mission and the vision of this Fellowship by saying yes to leadership by serving as president and increasing my pledge and putting positive energy to diversity, equity, and inclusion. It’s the next right thing.
With LOVE at the Center.
Becky Smith, Manatee UU Fellowship Board President
As I watch the national championship game between Ohio State and Notre Dame, I’m listening to each of them talk about the history and tradition they honor and the pride they each take in representing their universities. I am bursting with pride for our little Fellowship, making a difference. When we were able to secure a grant from the UUA disaster relief fund to give $30,000 to Kim’s Krew, I felt the satisfaction of knowing that we are living up to the tradition of our faith. We scored a touchdown!
We have so many exciting and important events happening. Just last week I was at the Fellowship three days in a row and I am going back tomorrow. Friday night at the Share-A-Dish we had a speaker from FEMA who shared some knowledge with us. I learned that you could get a refund of your property tax if your house was uninhabitable for more than 30 days. Also, FEMA representatives are available daily at the Palmetto public library for one on one help. Then on Saturday morning we had a workshop on preparing for the end of life. We were given checklists and sources for forms. Although it’s a serious topic, we had fun. I learned it’s legal to bury a body in your backyard. Two sure things in life are death and taxes and both topics were covered last week.
Then Sunday morning at the worship service in preparation of Martin Luther King Jr Day, Rev. Fred read a book about Coretta Scott King, we did a responsive reading of an excerpt from Dr. King’s letter from the Birmingham jail, and in the homily he quoted from the book of Amos
“let justice roll down like waters and justice like an ever-flowing stream.”
It was both an inspiration and a call to action.
After 3 days in a row at the Fellowship then tomorrow night is our board meeting. It’s actually a high point of the month for me. The board is made up of members who love the Fellowship and who have made it their mission to ensure the success of the programs in the present and also ensure its future. One of the hot topics is the planning for the upcoming auction. It’s a fun event and also our major fundraiser. It’s been a busy but very enjoyable week.
I want to encourage everyone to get involved and take advantage of all of the activities and programs we have. Get involved in leadership and add your energy to the important work we are doing and need to do.
With LOVE at the Center,
Becky Smith, Board President
As 2024 winds down and we prepare for 2025, it’s time to ask: “What are we trying to do, and how are we doing?” We are trying to change the world. After all, we have to live here.
One of the first things we did was change our sign to include our Mission Statement and the progress pride flag to say who we are. This year we added committees and activities. Chair yoga for improved health, strength, and inner peace; Connections group to meet in a casual atmosphere and form friendly relationships. The Caregiver Support group was formed because it came to light that many of our members are either caring for a family member or experienced that role as a compassionate listener and champion.
Two new committees were formed. The Right Relations team is there to help us fulfill our covenant to develop a caring, respectful, safe and just congregation. The Strategic Planning committee is consulting with UUA and developing a survey to assess the needs and goals of the Fellowship.
The Auction committee is busy gathering items for our February auction. This contributes almost $8,000 to our budget annually.
We had a board retreat to inform all board members and set goals together. We also put the building and grounds committee to the test this year with hurricanes Debby, Helene, and Milton all affecting our area. We also experienced the need to have an emergency policy. Watch for Update articles addressing the safety concerns.
The Fellowship celebrated its 65th Anniversary in May with anticipation for the next 65 years. At the General Assembly, Article 2 was passed replacing the 7 principles with shared values and aspirations. At Manatee UU, we passed the 8th Principle: We “covenant to affirm and promote journeying toward spiritual wholeness by working to build a diverse multicultural Beloved Community by our actions that accountably dismantle racism and other oppressions in ourselves and our institutions.”
After the November election we had a get together to evaluate what happened and determine a path forward. We received a grant from the UUA Disaster Relief Fund which included $30,000 for Kim’s Krew food pantry to help them secure new quarters and restock after their hurricane damage.
We encouraged everyone to fill out the emergency forms to be kept in the office and to take that even further in January we’re having a workshop that includes the 5 wishes advanced directive or end of life to-do list. Something I’ve been meaning to do and need to do before it’s too late.
Although 2024 was an especially challenging year, we faced it, we survived it, and it’s over. Time to look ahead. Getting involved in committees and activities at our fellowship is a spiritually rewarding experience. Keeping LOVE at the Center is the formula to help us Change The World!
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